Children can be dangerous. Children can be mean. And guess what? That thing that people always say “If you want the truth, ask a child because they always say the truth”… Bull shit! They lie all the time. It might not be completely their fault, of course, it has a lot to do with the parents, but still… Then they try to justify the lie saying “Oh! It was just a trick…”, no! A lie is always a lie so listen to me now parents from the whole world: If you want that your children become a good and honest people, a good citizen and a good human being, pay attention on them and what kind of lies they are telling and correct them! Explain to them how lies are bad and can make no one trust on you anymore. Do not cover up! I saw parents covering up their kids lies, just in front of the kids, pretending that they did not know about it, and that is a huge mistake. You might think you are doing a good thing, being nice to your child but you are not. The kids do not understand yet the concept of covering up. They will believe they trick you, that they manage to lie and got out nicely so they will do it again and again. Earlier you start telling them about that, about truth and lies, better. Otherwise, believe me, they will become those ridiculous grow up people who lie all the time about everything.
“Ok, Lei: We believe in you about the lies but what about the meanness thing?” Oh, yeah! They are very mean with each other. Between brothers and sisters! They do stuff that really can hurt each other, fiscally and mentally. You probably will hear or maybe you will be one of those who will say “but it is normal, they are kids…” No, you brain washed! It is not normal at all! That is what lazy parents will say because they do not want to put too much effort on raising their kids properly, so it is easier to just let them go. The normal thing it is when we are nice to each other and friendly and kind. It is not good do meanness and it is awful to receive any type of it. I suffered with my sister’s meanness so I know what I am talk about it. So again, that is not a normal behavior.
In these moments it is inevitable to think if this have something to do with the parent’s education. So also it is inevitable to think if Violet is mean with Harper? Ok, that is not inevitable to think, it is just a crazy fan think.